If something is weighing on you, be sure you share with your partner in life.
The longer you wait, the harder it is to remain nice in the day-to-day. I had a very deep and thought-provoking conversation with my dear friend Dorian last week. I abstained from having a similar conversation with my partner, as I was afraid to share the burden, thinking it would send her down a similar road of feeling burdened. As the days clicked by, I became passive aggressive in my ‘way of being’ around Liz. I also was short-fused; she could do nothing right. We were jabbing verbally at one another. This morning, out to breakfast we go. Jab-Jab-Jab. “What is going on with us?” I asked. She shared a bit of what was so for her and then I totally let loose.
Bottom line: All is fine now!
The moral of the story: Never make them guess....
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What is Lesson 417?
It was so long ago I barely rememebr. Let me check my logs and I will get back to you.....
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